Maybe one of the most common occurrences that happens in a public speaking situation is to see someone in the audience go to sleep on you. When you are the one going to sleep, you just hope the speaker doesn’t notice. But when you are the speaker, you know that you do notice and you wonder what you are doing wrong. You worked hard on your speech and you thought it was pretty interesting stuff. So why do they doze off?
Well you are in good company if you see that happen. For some reason this phenomenon happens
routinely in churches all over the country every Sunday morning. And that preacher is a skilled public speaker
who you would think could keep that crowd riveted. But in many public situations, even when the
speaker has decades of experience, he may still not know how to keep that
audience awake. That is because there is
a public speaking technique that if you learn it early, you will be come of the
rare public speakers that routinely is considered to be "great" no
matter what the quality of your material.
That technique is quite simply how you use your voice. The voice is a marvelous tool. It has the power to express emotions, complex
ideas, humor or outrage. And yet for
some reason, many public speakers when they stand up to do a formal
presentation loose 90% of the expression in their voices. All of a sudden we all start to sound like a
boring math teacher droning on in a monotone even if the subject we are talking
about is very interesting, human or emotional.
You could talk about the day you fell in love or how to skydive but if
you say it in a monotone, you are going to put people to sleep.
You have a lot of vocal tone available to you that you
naturally use when you speak person to person and you are relaxed. What causes speakers to switch to a monotone
or a reduced amount of vocal tones when speaking formally starts with
nervousness. You are so focused on
speaking clearly so you are understood that you end up sounding like you are
reading the phone book. This is
especially true if you have your entire speech written out and you are reading
it. The strange thing is you would never
read like that to children. It's strange
we fall back to that style of speaking when talking to a group of adults.
Two great exercises can be used to help you get control over
your vocal range as you speak. It really isn't something you want to think a
lot about when you are in front of people because then you will become self
conscious. But listen to other speakers
and think about how they can improve their range of vocal tones. That will help you process your own range of
expression. But also practice your
presentation focusing on the ideas themselves but also on how you say
them. Don’t be afraid to express
emotions while speaking. If the subject
is exciting, be excited. If it's
troubling, be troubled. Be a human in
front your audience will respond.
In addition, you can add a lot of variety to your
presentation varying the volume with which you speak and the speed. You don’t want to shout but when you speak
softly at times and with more force at others, that sudden change of tone and
volume can capture the ear of the audience and hold their attention. In a way your focal presentation takes on
elements of music as you use your voice as an instrument to make sure not only
that the information is given to the audience but that they stay awake long
enough to hear it.
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