Why is it that so many people believe
that they don’t have time or take the initiative to be romantic? Maybe most people don’t believe that they are
creative enough to be romantic. Everyone
is creative! The definition of being
creative is having the ability or power to create. The word create offers a much broader
definition than most people accept when it comes to the process of being able
to come up with something original or simply well thought out.
Gifts that are considered to
be traditionally romantic like candy and flowers are wonderful, but sometimes
you need something that goes one step further.
If your spouse enjoys flowers, you don’t have to settle for roses
because they can sometimes become unexciting after a while! Present him or her with something completely
original such as a daisy or another flower where petals can be counted. Ask him or her to play the childhood game of
‘they love me, they love me not’ and watch them pluck the petals as they
go. However, don’t allow for the
possibility of him or her arriving at the ‘they love me not’. Count the petals before you present the
flower to your spouse and trim it so that there is an odd number of petals for
the right outcome!
Arts and crafts used to be a
fun break from the monotony of the school day, but believe it or not, it will
come in handy when it comes to creative romantic gestures. Instead of promising that you will love him
or her forever, show them. Take a piece
of paper, ribbon or other material you choose and write “I love you” on both
sides from end to end. Twist the paper
180 degrees and connect both ends of the paper until you have mad what looks
like the figure eight. Tape or glue to
ends together. You can present your love
with a symbol that shows them your love for them is an endless love.
Creativity comes in many
different forms! Being creative can mean
creating an atmosphere. If you want to
plan the ultimate romantic evening but funds are low or you simply don’t want
to have to leave the house, shut down the electricity and imitate a power
outage (it’s up to you whether or not you tell him or her!). You won’t have any distractions or heat, so
it is up to both of you to keep the other warm and entertain each other.
Maybe romance is on your mind,
but he or she is going out of town. Did you know that people on airplanes are
typically hopeless romantics? Any flight
attendant would be more than happy to make sure that your spouse receives a
special present after the flight has left the ground. Simply approach a crewmember after he or she
boards the plane and they are usually more than happy to oblige a hopeless
romantic like you! (You might want to
make sure that the gift is unwrapped or keep it to a single rose due to
heightened security.)
Creativity doesn’t have to
come in the form of gifts every single time.
Gestures like getting up and dancing with your spouse when a special
song comes on the radio is quite creative and incredibly romantic! Whenever the mood strikes you, allow your
creative juices to flow!
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